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May 11, 2016 - 2 Comments

Are You Comfortable Saying No? NO! That word alone needs no further explanation. If you truly aren’t interested in something, that should  be your first answer, your last answer, and your best answer. There are so many things that will compete  for you time: friends, relatives, everyday life issues. Truth be told, not everything or everyone deserves  your attention. Sure, you may have a big heart and a strong desire to help people, but that shouldn’t be  done at the risk of hurting yourself. Having a heart is one thing. Professional and personal denigration is  another.   In order for your dreams to be realized, you’re going to have to eliminate negative influences, and most  importantly, you have to first celebrate yourself. Celebrating yourself is a key element in achieving the  success that you desire. If you already understand what it is that you want to do and you understand what  you are willing to accept, then rejecting things not germane to your goals must be rejected.  Go ahead;  practice saying no.  Being Comfortable Saying No  Let’s come to an understanding about something right now. In order for you to be successful, you’re  going to have to say no. Does that mean you’re going to face rejection? Yes. Does that mean that you  might be perceived as an a-hole? Certainly. Think about all of the times you agreed to something that you  really didn’t believe in. Where did that get you? What could you have done with all of that lost time?  Saying yes when you really aren’t interested doesn’t make you a nice person. It makes you foolish, better  yet stupid.  I can speak on this because I was once that person. A little bit about me: I’m a licensed and ordained  minister from Chicago. I don’t fit the stereotypical mould of someone with those credentials. I love to help  others, but I did so at the expense of my family and myself. After 20 long years of kidney failure and  dialysis, I finally received a transplant – a new lease on life. It hit me – I can’t please everyone, so don’t  try. It’s okay to say no.  While recovering from complications after my surgery, there were event  invitations I had to turn down. Before the transplant, I would’ve attended, even though I had absolutely no  interest in going. Because of my recovery, I was FORCED to say no. People weren’t used to hearing that.  I think some of them thought I was Superman. Here’s why. If I had a bad dialysis treatment, I would go. If  I was exhausted from work and ministry, I would go. If I wanted to spend time with my family instead, I  would go. This time I said no. You know what happened? So-called best friends are no longer friends;  certain ministry partners no longer talk to me; certain music partners stopped calling. The beautiful thing ...

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March 12, 2016 - 1 Comments

All Your Problems In Life Solved In Two Minutes   Want All Your Problems In Life Solved In Two Minutes? Well first of all what we need to do is educate you that your problems are not...

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February 24, 2016 - 1 Comments

Do You Even Have A Reason To Be A Success Story? When i embarked on my journey for success i was asked Do You Even Have A Reason To Be A Success Story? This wasn’t  question i...

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The Importance Of Success Rituals Now ever since i’ve been focused on success and by focused, if i’m absolutely honest i should say i mean absolutely obsessed with success. I’ve made it a habit to...

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November 16, 2015 - 0 Comments

Is Your Ambition Killing You Slowly? Now your first thoughts may be “I’m not sure what this means” so first of all i would like to invite you to watch this video below so you...

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September 29, 2015 - 0 Comments

How To Make Life Suck Less Now when i say that your life sucks, what i don’t mean is that its a whole crock of shit. Its more an exaggeration on the fact that you...

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September 27, 2015 - 0 Comments

Are You Afraid Of The Truth? Truth is REAL power. The truth is the ultimately best weapon there is against the lies and the fakery that goes in nowadays. People who build huge empires off...

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September 25, 2015 - 0 Comments

How To Be Relevant Relevance, it’s only ever worth talking about or paying attention to things that are relevant, or else we are pretty much talking ifs, buts and maybes right? Now my reason for making...

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September 24, 2015 - 0 Comments

How To Reach Your End Goal Now as the owner of a brand called GetRichRapping, the first thing i often am asked is, how do i get rich rapping? Which i mean, i can’t knock...

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